Unemployment: The Best Job I Never Had

May 26th, 2011
Illustration for the newspaper: 'de Volkskrant'. about being happily unemployed.
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Earlier this year, there were reports in the  media that companies are not hiring unemployed people. Apparently it has reached the point where the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission in the US  is investigating. They are trying to figure out whether this trend is widespread and could violate American job discrimination laws.

Personally, I think that this not hiring somebody because they have lost their previous job is short-sighted. As I am unemployed, you may think this is self-serving. Perhaps it is. But I think that being unemployed for an extended time has actually improved my employability in several ways.

My Unemployment Experience

Like most people, I was distraught when I first lost my job. Not only was it during the worst recession of my lifetime, my situation was even more dour; my Canadian citizenship presented other challenges to finding employment in Phoenix. However, I never gave up hope.

Part of this was that I received a decent severance and my wife and I had some savings to fall back on. In addition, my wife’s employment helped keep us financially afloat.  I also knew if worse came to worse, I could pack up and return to Canada, which I recently did.

A Silver Lining

A bigger part was the face that I looked at my unemployment as an opportunity, not a threat. I knew the economic crisis and my immigration status poses immediate obstacles to finding employment in the short and medium term. But instead of panicking, I used the time my unemployment offered me to reevaluate—and ultimately re-brand—myself according to my abilities and my passions.

Whatever the present moment contains, accept it as if you had chosen it. Always work with it, not against it. Make it your friend and ally, not your enemy. This will miraculously transform your whole life. —Eckhart Tolle

As a result, far from being a weakness to cover up, my unemployment is a strength to promote. Here’s why:

It Provided New Opportunities

More than anything else, unemployment gave me the opportunity for self-reflection and, ultimately, self-realization. During my unemployment I have really got in tune with myself to understand what makes me tick. It  has forced me to think about what I want to do and where I want to be.

In addition to freeing my time, unemployment liberated me to look at my world from completely different perspective. I had the opportunity to take risks and try things that I wouldn’t have done before. If I had remained employed in my job, I would have remained a skilled policy analyst, who always wondered why he never felt fulfilled.

Being unemployed and without much hope of finding a job gave me the opportunity to start looking at things a different way. More importantly, it has helped me find my true calling. Unemployment was the perfect chance to start investigating my passions and fine tuning my interests.

As a result, I am a different person than I was before, or imagined that I ever could be. And while I am financially poorer for the time being, I am happier and more self-assured that I would have ever imagine.

It Improved My Skills

When employed, I was paid to do certain things. Some I enjoyed and am good at (i.e. what I was originally hired to do). Other things that became part of the job, but which I wasn’t passionate about. Being unemployed allows to tho limit the second type of activities and focus and on the first type. In effect, it helped fine-tune my strengths.

Unemployment also gave me the opportunity to learn new skills that complemented my interests and passions. As a research and policy wonk, I had well-developed research and analytical skills. This is what I was hired for, and this is what I did 90% of the time. While it was comfortable being an expert, I felt that something was missing.

Loosing my job allowed me to address this void. and developed and deepen skills that I didn’t already have. I had dabbled with blogs before, but I really didn’t know much. Today, thanks to developing all these skills, I’ve run several blogs and have helped others build theirs. I have also become adept at hosting and promoting events. Finally I have learned how to engage people and build communities. These are all increasing important skills in the workforce. All were skills that my earlier jobs did not give me the opportunity to develop.

It Strengthened My Network

Being unemployed is an isolating experience. I lost contact with most of my work colleagues and even a few ‘fair weather’ friends. I could no longer rely on my job title or employers name to meet other people or attend networking events and conferences.

Unemployment gave me a deeper appreciation of the friends and connections that stuck around. It also made me more discriminating in deciding who to connect with. This made the connections deeper and more meaningful. More importantly, unemployment gave me the opportunity to meet people who I would never had met I had I stayed in my job. Rather than relying on my job title or employer, I had to do meet people based on my skills and personality. These people have become invaluable members of my tribe.

Unemployed also gave me the opportunity to connect with people online and realize the true power of social networking. Through my blog and sites like Twitter and Facebook, I have connected, and become friends with several people not only in Phoenix and Vancouver, but from around the world.

These connections have provided me with opportunities I would never have otherwise had. They have inspired me to do things I would never have considered.  They have also deepened my knowledge and understand of subjects I am passionate about. Unlike my previous employment based networks, many of these social connections will follow me wherever I go.

Far from being a set-back, unemployment was a great learning experience.  It encouraged me to re-discover myself. It helped me reorient my career path to align with my skills and passions. I won’t lie and say it was a bed of roses. Indeed it has several downsides. These include financial stress, family tensions and general uncertainty. I will be ECSTATIC when I find my next job.

But in the end, the experiences I gained from unemployment truly were the best that money couldn’t buy. I am now a more self-assured, highly skilled and better connected prospective employee than ever before. Far from being a black mark, my unemployment was a blessing in disguise.  Hopefully prospective employers will agree!

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2 thoughts on “Unemployment: The Best Job I Never Had

  1. I thought this was incredibly well put. Certainly most people would prefer not to lose their jobs, but it also can be an opportunity to look a bit more closely at what we want in life. It is easy to get on the treadmill and never get off until you wake one day and you are 60 and someone hands you a gold watch and asks you to pack up your desk. Better that we made some of our own choices along the way as opposed to just staying on the same track without looking to see what else is out there.

    Bravo.

    1. Thanks Wayne.

      I tried the treadmill (and the exercycle too!). Both got me nowhere. It’s too bad it took losing my job to accomplish, but for the first tine in my career I feel like I’m actually in the direction I want (even if I still do no know the final destination).

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